We’re here to give you the low down on attending a foot fetish party including where to find one in your area, what to wear, and what to expect. So grab your sexiest pair of heels or stockings and let’s get started!
What Is a Foot Fetish Party?
Similar to swinger parties and clubs, foot fetish parties bring together like-minded individuals with a common appreciation and passion for one thing – feet! Whether you like to practice foot worship or prefer to be on the receiving end of the pampering, you can do it all at a foot fetish party. And the best part is, that you’re guaranteed to be surrounded by people who love and adore feet as much as you do.
Most foot fetish parties are held at public venues, similar to a swinger’s club. In fact, some swinger’s clubs may even host foot fetish events. Guests can enjoy cocktails, appetizers, music, and plenty of room to spread out and live out their fantasies. Some venues will have different stations where guests can perform foot massages and pedicures or more private rooms for foot jobs and other sexually explicit foot play.
There are also companies that specialize in hosting foot fetish parties. These companies will either come to you and help host a private event in your home or rent out a local cozy spot for a single night. You can create the guest list or let the company provide a few models for your guests to meet and engage with. Think of it sort of like a brothel for feet. The paid foot models are there to mingle and flirt with guests who pay to be in attendance. Once a guest finds someone they mesh with and both agree to take things further, they can engage in public foot worship and activities or move to a more private area. This all depends on the location of the party and the hosting company’s rules.
Guests are encouraged to mix, mingle, and gravitate toward whoever catches their eye. You can attend a foot fetish party alone or with a partner. Just know that everyone in attendance is looking to engage in some naughty foot play so if you’re not open to sharing your significant other, a foot fetish party might not be the best choice. Have an open and honest discussion with your partner before RSVPing to a foot fetish party that involves swapping and sharing partners.
What to Expect from a Foot Fetish Party
Before you decide to host a foot fetish party on your own or attend one, you need to know what to expect. This way, you can practice proper etiquette, feel comfortable, and get the most out of your experience.
Who Attends Foot Fetish Parties?
Foot fetishists of all types attend these types of kinky parties. In fact, even non-foot lovers might attend as a guest or to support their partner who has a foot fetish. People from all walks of life dabble in the foot fetish lifestyle, regardless of gender. Although it’s interesting to note that heterosexual men make up the biggest group of foot fetishists. This is one reason that companies that host foot fetish parties normally bring female models to engage in foot play and activities.
Whether you’re a self-proclaimed lover of feet, curious to learn what foot fetishism is all about, or going to indulge your partner’s fantasy, you can safely and comfortably attend a foot fetish gathering. One reason is that, unlike a swinger’s party or club, most foot fetish parties are about mingling and making small talk before taking foot play behind closed doors. Even if two (or more) people choose to engage in some foot fun out in the open, it’s usually reserved for massages, kissing, rubbing, or modeling footwear. The more explicit activities like footjobs or naked foot massages are generally conducted in private.
Another perk to attending a foot fetish party as a novice or noobie is that you don’t have to engage in any foot fetish activities. You can simply attend to learn about the lifestyle. Just know, though, that your mere presence signals to other guests that you’re open and willing to engage in foot fetish behavior so don’t be surprised if you’re approached by another guest looking to explore what you’ve got hidden beneath those stilettos or thigh-high boots. You can politely decline and explain your reason for being there.
Not all foot fetish parties bring couples together or expect guests to interact with one another. As mentioned above, companies that host foot fetish parties will bring the entertainment to you. All you need to do is invite over all your foot fetish friends and let them engage with the company’s models. Women (mostly) who love having their feet worshiped (or are paid to do so) are eager and waiting for your friends to arrive. They will engage in conversation, talk about their interests and preferences, and then, when the time is right, start engaging in foot play and worship. This can be done in the middle of the party or in a more secluded area.
What Happens at a Foot Fetish Party?
After the small talk is done and your guests have found who they want to play with, the real fun can begin. Every foot fetish party will be set up differently and offer its own unique activities and accommodations.
Here are a few ideas for hosting your own gathering and some popular activities you can expect if you attend a foot fetish party held at a venue.
Foot Pampering Stations
There are numerous ways to pamper someone’s foot from giving them a foot rub or massage to performing a pedicure – all of which you can do at a foot fetish party (or have done to you). Foot massage is one of the most popular and mild forms of foot play. It’s also the most widely accepted at a foot fetish party and popular among couples. Most venues will have foot massage or foot rubbing stations or areas of the room setup for guests to utilize. They may include lotion, oil, and even a foot bath. Here, the foot worshiper can pamper the recipient’s feet the way they deserve. While you may not want to perform a complete pedicure involving clipping toenails and trimming cuticles, you can apply toenail polish to someone’s feet or decorate them using jewelry (toe rings, ankle bracelets, etc.) and other stylish accessories.
Other Forms of Foot Worship
Foot pampering is a good activity for anyone attending their very first foot fetish party or still slowly entering the world of foot fetishism. If you’re already experienced in this department, and want to dive head first (or should we say, mouth?) into more intense foot play, you can engage in other foot worship activities including kissing and licking someone’s feet, sucking their toes, or even eating food off of them. Some people enjoy rubbing a person’s feet on their face, neck, chest, and other parts of their bodies. Add foot items and accessories to your foot worship area including edible massage oils, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, and honey. Get creative and give your guests plenty of materials to play around with.
Behind the Scenes Foot Fetish Activities
While any of the above mentioned foot worship activities are accepted and encouraged out in the open at a foot fetish party, some people prefer to indulge in privacy. One reason is that they want to take things to the next level.
Foot jobs are popular among foot fetishists and are exactly what they sound like – think a hand job, with your foot. Men with a foot fetish love nothing more than having a woman stimulate them with their feet – often to the point of orgasm. But this fun isn’t reserved just for the guys! Women love having their body’s explored and stimulated by feet too. You can also get or give a complete body massage using your feet.
Foot bondage and humiliation are two more intense but still wildly popular forms of foot play. Foot bondage involves using ropes, ankle cuffs, and other BDSM accessories to bind or restrain a person’s foot or legs. For those who enjoy even rougher play, foot humiliation usually consists of one partner manhandling the other using their feet. This may involve pushing them around, standing on them, or demanding they do certain things to their feet.
The one thing to always keep in mind when hosting or attending a foot fetish party is that everyone involved must consent and be comfortable with what’s going on. It’s not a bad idea to have a safe word that all the guests know and can use if a situation escalates too far.
Can I Host My Own Foot Fetish Party?
Yes! After reading this guide on foot fetish parties there’s no reason you can’t host your own. Whether you choose to have it at your own home or a more neutral location, a lot of planning goes into a foot fetish party. It’s important to carefully select everything from the guests and refreshments to the activities and other accommodations.
Here are a few things to consider when organizing your own foot fetish get together.
- Where and when will you host the party?
- Who will be on the guest list?
- Will you host it yourself or hire a company to help?
- What is your budget for supplies?
- What types of foot play stations will you have?
- What type of food and drink will you serve?
- Is there room for a private foot play area?
- How will you send out invites? (Facebook, email, text)
Start by planning a small get together with just your closest friends or hire a company to give you a better idea of how it should be organized and arranged. After you get one foot fetish party under your belt, you can plan more elaborate get togethers with more people and activities.
What to Wear to a Foot Fetish Party
There’s no dress code for a foot fetish party. But one thing most guests can agree on is choosing footwear or other accessories that show off your best features – your feet! Women should choose their shoes first and then plan their outfit around that. Opt for a classic pair of red bottom heels with fishnet stockings, nude pantyhose, or no leg coverings at all. High boots and sandals are also popular choices. You can even go with something super casual like flip flops to put your 10 toes on display for all to see. Pair your shoes with something sexy – a little black dress, skin tight jeans and a tank top, or even a sexy piece of lingerie (if it’s party-appropriate).
Guys have fewer footwear options and that’s okay. Men can either wear flip flops or loafers with shorts to show off their ankles while still leaving something to the imagination. Sometimes, less is more. Keep the ladies (and gents) at the party guessing as to what’s beneath your shoes. If they really want to know, they can engage you in conversation and suggest some private time. (This same rule applies to women, too.)
How Long Do Foot Fetish Parties Last?
There’s no real time limit on a foot fetish party, but some public parties last from 3 to 5 hours. They’re usually nighttime events that encourage attendees to let their hair down, have a cocktail, and lower their inhibitions for a night of stimulating fun.
If you’re hosting your own foot fetish party, you get to choose the time. Start in the early evening to give people enough time to pamper and prepare themselves. Specify an end time unless you’re fine with letting the party go on as long as the guests are happy and engaged. While this is possible in the comfort of your own home, if you’re hosting your foot fetish party at a venue or other public place, they’ll probably dictate the timeframe.
Finding Foot Fetish Parties Near You
Finding foot fetish parties and events in your area is easier than you might think. It’s also a great way to get a taste for the foot fetish world before hosting your own get together.
The easiest way to find a party near you is to simply Google the phrase, “foot fetish parties near me”. Any local clubs or venues that are hosting upcoming events will advertise them here. You can also visit websites like footnight.com or fetish.com to search specific cities and area codes to find the closest parties to where you live.
Before you pay for tickets or sign up to attend a foot fetish party, read all of the rules, guidelines, and requirements. Make sure that you’re comfortable with how the party is run and that you agree to all the terms. Not all foot fetish parties are organized the same way. Just because you’ve been to one (or a dozen) doesn’t mean you’ll know what to expect from the next one. It’s always best to go into one of these events with clear expectations of what’s expected of you and an understanding of what behavior is and isn’t acceptable. When in doubt, ask!
Who’s Ready to Party?
Are you ready to attend your very first foot fetish party? Now that you know what to expect and how they’re organized, you can enter with confidence and an open mind. Or maybe you’ve been to a few events and you’re ready to plan your own bash. Hopefully these tips and tricks will come in handy for creating an unforgettable and enjoyable get together.