There are two types of people in this world – those who love to dominate and those who enjoy being dominated. These roles are at the core of most BDSM relationships. Dominants are often controlling and assertive, while their submissive counterparts are the opposite. Submissives are timid, meek, and familiar with taking orders.
While this dynamic might sound unpleasant to some people, dominants and submissives find their roles both arousing and rewarding. This type of roleplay is popular in various types of relationships – including those where foot fetishism is involved.
In this article, we’ll answer the question, “What is a foot fetish slave?” plus share insight into the duties of a foot slave, how to become one, and why people find this practice appealing.
What is a Foot Slave?
There’s no clear-cut definition of a foot slave. This phrase is used to describe any foot fetishist who takes a submissive role during foot play with a partner. All activities are consensual and based on a mutual love and appreciation of feet.
As with most BDSM partnerships, one person is the dominant, and the other is the submissive. The person who takes on the more dominant role is assertive, powerful, and in control of the dynamic. They bark orders, make demands, and, in some scenarios, humiliate or insult the submissive. And while this might sound awful for the submissive, it’s not. Submissives find a certain level of pleasure and enjoyment from being at the mercy of their “ruler.”
As a foot slave, your dominant’s wish is your command. In these arrangements, the dominant likely has a foot fetish, and the slave’s duty is to satisfy their foot-related fantasies. This may include everything from foot worship and humiliation to giving or receiving foot rubs, foot jobs, and more.
What Do Foot Slaves Do?
The main role of any good foot slave is to be at the beck and call of their master. Foot slaves must obey their dominant and perform whatever tasks please them. It’s important to note that these dominant/submissive relationships are always consensual. Foot slaves gain as much pleasure from the experience as their masters. While some people get off on being in charge, plenty of others are turned on by relinquishing control and being vulnerable to their partners. Setting clear boundaries, choosing a safe word, and communicating are key elements of any dominant/submissive relationship.
There are no do’s and don’ts when it comes to being a foot slave. Every BDSM relationship is unique and designed to fit the individual needs of the participants. Dominant foot fetishists may want different things from their slaves, while slaves may or may not be willing to comply.
Here are a few examples of activities and duties that may apply to a foot slave.
Foot Worship
This is one of the most common practices of foot slaves. Foot worship looks different for everyone, but the main concept involves one partner worshipping the other person’s feet. This may include kissing, caressing, and complimenting the person’s feet, offering foot massages, giving pedicures, or even groveling at their feet.
As a foot slave, it’s your job to obey whatever your partner wants or needs. You may be asked to kiss, lick, or suck their toes, massage their feet, or give them a foot job (more on this below). On the other hand, (or should we say foot?), if the dominant has a serious foot fetish, they may want their foot slave to be on the receiving end of the worship. As a foot slave, you may need just to sit there and take it as your master violates your feet (within your comfort zone, of course).
Foot Bondage
In true BDSM form, foot bondage is a common practice among foot slaves and their masters. In some cultures, foot bondage is a celebrated art form and is considered a beautiful way to showcase and honor a woman’s feet. Bondage in BDSM relationships can range from beginner activities like handcuffs and blindfolds to more intense scenarios involving hogties, restraints, and more.
As a foot slave, you may be asked to engage in all types of foot bondage. Be clear about your boundaries and create a safe word. Safe words are words or phrases used in dominant/submissive relationships that trigger the dominant to stop the current activity and check in with their partners. Because some forms of foot bondage can be intense and maybe even painful, it’s important to communicate your needs and let the other person know when things have gone too far.
Humiliation Play
While many avoid humiliation at all costs, others thrive on it. Humiliation play involves a submissive getting sexually aroused by being belittled, manhandled, insulted, and more. With ‘slave’ right in the name, it’s no surprise that some foot slaves enjoy this type of domination and embarrassment. Many foot fetishists will invite their dominants to push, lightly kick or manhandle them using their feet. This may include having the dominant’s feet or toes pushed into their face or mouth, being used as a footstool, being forced to perform foot massages, or kissing the ground they walk on – literally! Humiliation play for foot slaves comes in all forms and is unique to each arrangement.
Foot Rubs or Massage
Speaking of foot massages, it’s common for foot slaves to pamper their partner’s feet. Many foot slaves are also foot fetishists and jump at the chance to get their hands (and other things) on a beautiful pair of feet. Foot slaves may also get satisfaction from easing their partner’s stress, helping them relax, and listening to them moan and whimper in pleasure. Play around with different pressure, intensity, and techniques. You can also use scented massage oil or lotion to deliver a sensory experience.
Footjobs
As the name suggests, a footjob is like a handjob, except you use your feet to stimulate and arouse the other person’s genitals. Giving a good footjob takes time, patience, and careful technique. You don’t want to hurt the recipient (unless they ask for it), and it may take time to learn how to use your feet to get them off. But as any good slave would, foot slaves work tirelessly to please and pleasure their masters. A footjob can be a stand-alone activity or part of foreplay.
How to Become a Foot Slave
Anyone with a genuine love of feet and an open mind can be a foot slave. You also need to be a good communicator and be willing to experiment within your comfort zone. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, you can use these six tips to get started as a foot slave.
Talk to Your Partner
This tip is for all the couples out there. The best way to broach the subject of foot fetishes and foot slavery is to talk to your partner. By now, they likely know that you have a foot fetish. Maybe you give them daily foot rubs, fondle their feet during sex, or nibble their toes when the opportunity presents itself. Expand on these forms of foot foreplay by mentioning foot slavery. Ask your partner if they’d be open to being your foot slave or enslaving you. Be clear about your fantasies and desires. Mention specific activities you have in mind and figure out which ones they’re comfortable trying.
Attend Foot Fetish Parties
With 1 in 7 people having a foot fetish, it’s no surprise that foot fetish parties are popping up all over the place. These parties create a safe space for fetishists and foot lovers to meet, connect, and bond over a shared fascination with feet. Most parties are hosted in someone’s home or public place. Choose a comfortable setting and either go alone or bring a friend. These parties offer a great opportunity to meet other open-minded foot fetishists. You may even find someone looking for a foot slave, such as yourself!
Hire a Foot Fetish Escort
If you’re on the lookout for a foot slave but haven’t had any luck, you can hire someone to submit to you. Foot fetish escorts are a real thing and have become increasingly popular as more people come out as foot-obsessed. From footjobs and sex to more platonic activities, hiring a foot slave is the perfect way to indulge in your foot fantasies discretely. You can also advertise yourself as a foot slave if you want to make some extra money and don’t mind going the extra mile to please your customers.
Find Other Foot Fetishists Online
Not everyone is comfortable visiting foot fetish parties or meeting other foot fetishists in person. If you prefer to keep your escapades strictly virtual, you can connect with many other foot lovers online. There are websites, groups, and forums dedicated to foot fetishes. Within these safe spaces, you can express your need for a foot slave or mention your desire to become one. If you want to keep things virtual, you can host live cam sessions where you act out whatever your customers request. This can range from foot care routines and foot bondage to footwear fashion shoes.
Sell Feet Pics
Similar to hosting virtual cam sessions, online foot slaves can also sell feet pics. Although most sellers post standard foot pics and videos on their page, many others accept special requests from clients and fill custom orders. By taking requests for specific foot pics or videos, you can explore the world of foot slavery without ever leaving your house. Safely chat with foot fetishists on sites like FunwithFeet.com and find out what their fantasies are. Then, create personalized content based on their needs and preferences. In this way, you’re acting as a foot slave to your buyers. Producing custom content adds another level of intimacy and personalization that many eager buyers are more than happy to pay for.
Find Your Freedom in Foot Slavery
While slavery sounds like the opposite of freedom, it’s not the case when discussing foot fetishes. Embracing your ability to be a foot slave and relishing in the beauty of foot fetishism is an empowering experience. Whether you want your feet worshipped or love when others do the groveling, foot slavery offers a unique opportunity to explore another layer of the inclusive and intoxicating world of foot fetishes.
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