Cowgirl, doggie-style, and missionary. These are the top 3 sex positions according to popular surveys among both men and women. The sex position you choose says a lot about your personality and preferences.
For example, some women like the cowgirl position because they can take control of their pleasure. It makes them feel powerful and in charge. Many men who enjoy doggy style also have a butt fetish or enjoy anal play.
But what if your fetish is farther south? We’re talking about foot fetishes, of course! If you or your partner have a thing for feet and want to incorporate this kink in the bedroom, this article is for you. Keep reading to learn the best foot fetish sex positions to try out with a willing partner.
1. The Wedge
No, we aren’t talking about the wedge sandals, although these are a great way to show off that new nail color! The wedge is one of the best foot fetish sex positions for deep penetration and intimate eye contact.
Start by having your male partner knee, sitting back on his heels. (Two girls can mimic this position using a strap-on.) Now, lay on your back in front of them with your legs extended out. Have your partner pull you up and onto their lap until your hips are resting comfortably against their thighs. Drape your legs over their shoulders, with your feet within reach of their hands and mouth.
As your partner enters you, they can also suck and lick your toes, tickle your feet, or nibble your ankles. Arch your back and lend or adjust your legs to play around with various positions. The wedge is a great foot fetish sex position for achieving deep penetration and a deep connection with your partner.
2. The 69 Switch Up
This foot fetish sex position puts a unique spin on the traditional 69 position we’ve all come to know and love (literally). For those unfamiliar with 69, this classic sex position involves two people aligning their bodies in such a way that they can perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.
The 69 switch-up involves the same position but different oral activities. While one partner is performing oral sex, the other is focusing all of their attention on the person’s feet. They can lick, suck, massage, rub, tickle, or nibble their partner’s toes and ankles. Try to match your movements and intensity with your partners. If they go harder and you like it, go harder in return. If you want them to slow down, take a short break between nibbles and kisses or slow down your movements to signal them that you want to make the most of every moment.
Bend your knees to give your partner easy access to your feet and encourage them to play with your genitals at the same time. Although this foot fetish sex position requires multi-tasking and a little flexibility, we guarantee it’s worth it!
3. Classic Pump
Calling all foot fetishists that drool over a pair of sexy stilettos. There’s something undeniably sexy about getting completely naked and wearing nothing but your shoes. Being nude in heels is empowering for women and a huge turn-on for their other half. Slip into your favorite pair of sexy heels or boots and slip out of your clothes.
Then, sit on the edge of the bed, chair, or couch and put your knees together. Spread your legs out wide to give yourself some height. Next, bend at the knees and position your heels right next to your bum, where your partner can easily grab them. Get a good grip and hold on for the ride!
4. The Toe Grip
This is the best foot fetish sex position to stimulate all of your senses. Similar to a foot job (more on that in a second) but with a visually appealing twist. Sit on the bed (dress or undressed – the choice is yours) and lock your toes and soles together. You can also prop your feet up on a nearby table. The most important thing here is to get a good grip. Make sure your left and right toes are gripping each other tightly.
Then, have your man slide his penis between the soles of your feet and stroke them. A little lubricant or massage oil can help move things along more smoothly. This is similar to a foot job, except your feet remain stationary and securely in place as your man thrusts, grinds, and maneuvers his member in the most pleasurable ways. The toe grip foot fetish sex position also has the added benefit of offering a great view for both partners.
5. The T Strap
This foot fetish sex position lets you both lay down, relax, and enjoy the fun. Lay down on your sides, facing one another, but position yourself so that you’re perpendicular to your partner. This should create a T shape with your bodies. Then, bend your knees so your feet are directly beside or on their face. From here, anything goes! Your partner can lick, tickle, kiss, suck, nibble, or blow on your feet and toes. Experiment with different sensations, speeds, and intensities until you find exactly what your partner likes.
6. Foot Jobs for Him and Her
Foot jobs are extremely popular within the foot fetish community. When you’re sexually aroused by feet, what better way to get off than by combining two satisfying experiences? An intimate orgasm with your partner – and feet! Okay, so a foot job isn’t technically a foot fetish sex position, but their popularity and diversity made them a must-have on this list.
The best part is that both men and women can get in on this action and take turns receiving and giving pleasure. While most people associate foot jobs with hand jobs, this sex position is broader than that. Foot jobs describe any form of genital stimulation using the feet. Girls (and guys) can stroke, rub, and caress their partner’s penis using their toes, the soles of their feet, and even the heels.
For females on the receiving end, let your partner caress your lady parts and even experiment with mild penetration using their toes. There are countless ways for your partner to also stimulate your vulva or clitoral area using the ball of their foot or ankles. Get creative with different sex positions, locations, and techniques. If both parties agree, finish things off with a “happy ending” on the tops of their feet or in between their toes.
Foot Fetish Foreplay
Whether you’re not ready to dive right into these foot fetish sex positions or you want to add some foreplay to your foot game, these warm-up activities can help get you in the mood.
Erotic Foot Massages
Everyone loves a good foot massage. For some people, they’re relaxing. For others, they’re arousing. Foot massages are a great form of foot fetish foreplay. If you enjoy foot worship, offer your partner a foot massage. Use scented oils, a warm soaking tub, and candles to set the mood.
Tickling
If you enjoy being tickled or making your partner giggle, try experimenting with foot tickling as foreplay. You can use your fingers, a feather, and other fun props to tickle and tease the bottoms and tops of their feet. Don’t be afraid to move up their leg. Behind the knees is an especially sensitive area. If things go well, you may find yourself between their legs!
Foot Bondage
Foot bondage isn’t for the faint of heart. Bondage, in general, is popular within the BDSM community. People find bondage erotic for many reasons, like relinquishing or taking control and participating in roleplaying scenarios. Foot fetishists use ropes, ribbons, shackles, and other restraints to tie their partner’s feet in compromising and arousing positions.
Footwear Fashion Show
If the pump foot fetish sex position caught your eye, you may also have a fetish for sexy footwear. Indulge in your kink and shopping habits by putting on a footwear fashion show for your partner. Slide into your favorite heels, wedges, sandals, boots, and even sexy stockings and show them off. You can flaunt your footwear while wearing a sexy outfit, lingerie, or your birthday suit.
Sensation Play
Did you know that the human foot has over 200,000 nerve endings? That’s a lot of pleasure potential! Sensation play is a great way to ease into foot fetish sex positions. Experiment with different temperatures, like warm wax oil or ice cubes. You can try a light, tender touch or firm pressure. Nibble your partner’s toes lightly or give them a more aggressive bite if they like to skirt the line between pleasure and pain. You can also play around with different sensations DURING sex to achieve a more intense and intimate experience.
Try These Foot Fetish Sex Positions with a Trusted Partner
Fetishes are not only fun and arousing, but they offer a unique way to increase intimacy. If you share a foot fetish or are exploring the world of foot fetishes together, these sex positions and foreplay activities are a great way to get started.
Check out the rest of our blog for more trending topics on foot fetishes and ways to explore your foot fantasies.
