Some studies show that men have a higher sex drive than their female counterparts. This is due to myriad factors, including higher testosterone levels and societal influences. It’s also believed that men have more frequent and graphic sexual thoughts. Maybe that’s why men also have a wider array of sexual fetishes and kinks.
When it comes to male fetishes, a few obvious categories top the list, like boobs, threesomes, and voyeurism. But what about feet? While foot fetishes are growing in popularity, many questions remain. Like why do guys like feet?
Never fear! We’re here to answer this question and give you a sneak peek inside the male brain to discover why guys like feet, what triggers their foot fascination, and share some common signs of a foot fetish.
What is a Foot Fetish?
You’ve probably heard the phrase “foot fetish” thrown around a lot lately or have seen ads for feet pics pop up all over the Internet. That’s because foot fetishes are becoming more mainstream and widely accepted. But having a foot fetish doesn’t necessarily mean you enjoy sucking toes or getting a footjob.
Like feet, foot fetishes come in all shapes and sizes. Some fetishists love being on the receiving end of foot worship and would give anything for a pedicure or foot rob. On the other hand (or should we say foot), some fetishists are aroused by footplay that involves humiliation. This type of foot fetish could involve role-playing, BDSM, bondage, and other dominant and submissive games.
In its most basic form, a foot fetish is described as a sexual attraction to feet. Whether you’re aroused by the look and feel of someone else’s feet, get off on having your feet pampered, love incorporating feet into your sex life, or are generally fascinated by feet, you may have a foot fetish.
Check out this article for a deeper look at the science behind foot fetishes.
Why Do Guys Like Feet?
When asked what body parts guys are most attracted to, a few obvious answers come to mind. Boobs, butts, and beautiful faces are some of the most popular responses. But what about feet? According to one study, nearly 20% of all foot fetishists are heterosexual men. Another 21% are gay and bisexual men. That means that the male gender makes up nearly half of all foot fetishes worldwide.
So, what is it about feet that makes guys drool and grovel at your feet? Literally! Let’s find out.
It’s Forbidden
The Scarcity Principle states that people tend to react against anything that limits their freedoms. The minute someone tells you that you can’t have something, it’s all you want. This makes forbidden and taboo things that are seemingly “off limits”, all that more attractive and appealing – including feet!
Feet are usually hidden or covered by socks and shoes. This only adds to their mystery. Revealing a person’s feet is a sensual and vulnerable experience. Sexualizing feet is considered by many a “forbidden desire” or “unconventional.” Feet are often referred to as being smelly or stinky too, which makes it even more taboo to find them sexually arousing.
They Enjoy Domination/Submissive Role Play
Domination and submission are two more reasons why guys like feet. Role playing is popular among couples from all walks of life – pun intended. Guys like being on both sides of the domination dynamic. For some, being the dominant partner in control is a huge turn-on. Regarding feet, this could involve demanding his partner give him a footjob, allow him to suck or nibble the other person’s toes, or restrain their feet using bondage ropes and other accessories.
Men who get off on humiliation play may prefer taking the submissive role. Their partner can demand foot worship, push them around using their feet, or even stomp on them while wearing different types of shoes. All of these acts must be consensual, of course, and may involve role reversal.
Feet are Sexy
Let’s face it – feet are just plain sexy. If art and history have taught us anything, it’s that the female foot has often been worshiped for its petite size and beauty. There are hundreds of products on the market designed to help achieve smooth, flawless skin, and keep your toes neat, healthy, and polished. And let’s not forget about footwear and accessories. From stiletto heels and strappy sandals to flip-flops, see through stockings, and even toe rings and ankle bracelets, the female foot is one of the most accessorized and well-dressed parts of the body!
It’s Instinctual
For some guys, their love of feet is embedded in their psyche. The brain plays a bigger role in foot fetishes than maybe people realize. For one, the physical make-up of the brain places triggers for genital stimulation beside sensations in the feet. Sometimes, these messages overlap. For example, tickling a person’s foot may simultaneously create a physical response in their genitals and vice versa.
But brain chemicals aren’t the only explanation for an inherent foot fetish. If your first or most memorable sexual encounter involved feet, you may find yourself inexplicably drawn to them in the future. Most people vividly remember their first sexual experience or stand-out orgasm. If this memory also revolves around feet, it could develop into a foot fetish later in life. So, a simple answer to the question “why do guys like feet” could be that they lost their virginity to someone with gorgeous, bare feet or their best orgasm was following an intense footjob.
Phallic Symbolism
What sex or fetish discussion would be complete without mentioning Freud? Known for his outlandish and obscure beliefs about sexuality, Freud had his own take on foot fetishes and how they may have developed. His theories are specifically geared more toward men than women. Freud believed that the foot was a phallic symbol – in other words, it’s shaped like a penis. Freud took this theory one step further (pun intended), by stating that “The foot replaces the penis, which is so missed in the woman.”
The controversial neurologist believed that from a very young age, boys were searching for a penis on their mothers, as they believed we were all the same. The discovery that females are lacking penises, caused young men to seek a replacement, therefore stumbling upon (another pun) the phallic-shaped foot. While this speculation is a bit far-fetched, it could be true that some men like feet because they remind them of childhood, their mother, or tap into their continued curiosity over phallic-shaped objects.
Signs of a Male Foot Fetish
Now that you know some potential reasons why guys like feet, here are a few signs that you or someone you know may be a foot fetishist in disguise.
He Asks for Feet Pics Instead of Nudes
Men are visual creatures. They are easily aroused by the appearance of a nude woman (or man). Asking for nudes has also become common practice among many couples, situationships, and even mere strangers flirting or sexting online. One study reported that ⅓ of all adults have either sent or received a nude picture.
If the guy in your life has a foot fetish, they’ll likely be asking for feet pics instead of nudes. You may even catch them searching for sexy feet pics online. If you want to give them a real treat, slip out of your shoes and socks and snap a photo.
He Offers You a Foot Massage
Who doesn’t love a good foot rub? While some people are too ticklish for a foot massage, others would give anything for a partner who willingly down their tired dogs. Most guys with a foot fetish will jump at the chance to touch, caress, smell, and explore a gorgeous pair of feet. If your man is constantly offering foot rubs, asks to massage your feet, or asks to paint your toenails, it could be a sign that he likes your feet more than you think.
He Wants a Footjob
If you’ve heard of or performed a hand job, you know what a footjob is. This unconventional sex act involves stimulating your partner’s genitals to the point of climax, with nothing but your feet! Footjobs take some finesse and practice but with the right lube and technique, you can send your foot loving man into another realm of pleasure.
He Likes to Incorporate Feet in Foreplay and Sex
Guys that like feet can’t get enough of them. And, chances are, their obsession will surface in all aspects of your life – including the bedroom! There are countless ways to incorporate feet into your sex life beyond just foot rubs and footjobs. Toe sucking, licking, and kissing are popular among foot fetishists. Your partner may take your foot into their mouth (or shove theirs in yours) right as they climax. If your legs are resting on your partner’s shoulders during intercourse, don’t be surprised if he grabs one and starts feasting on your toes, ankles, or heels. Different sex positions also make it easier to access one another’s feet during sex. Some fan favorites include the 69 position, cowgirl, and doggie style. Get out your game of Twister and get creative!
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